in my understanding, if we refer to an ideal college life as a formal western dinner, then a high gpa, that is, grade point average, should be the main course, while an active part in activities, together with associations, means the appetizer. some romances, of course, play the role as desserts. they are the 3 key elements for an ideal college life.

　　those, however, are not what college life is all about. as we all know, college is wildly different from middle school. it connects not only adolescence to adulthood, but also the ivory tower to the real society. therefore, the ideal college life is that i become matured both physically and mentally, and that i obtain qualified academic knowledge and get well prepared for society at the same time.

　　under this circumstance, i never expect my college life to be too ideal, or you can call it too perfect. it is not realistic to make all things on my own way, with everyone liking me, winning the first prize all the time, and so on. of course, i’d like to lead a carefree life. however, this does little good to my future. what really helps is hardships like failure, betrayal, and unjust treatment. only after experiencing those can i know what society is like, and what life is like.

　　to conclude my speech, i wanna say, some positive experiences are surely part of the ideal college life. but, i should not forget about the negative sides. they are not less necessary.