Understanding between Parents and Children

Understanding between Parents and ChildrenNowadays, more and more parents pay great attention to their children. But when it comes to the topic of communication, most of them acknowledge the lack of it.More than one reason contributes to the phenomenon. To begin with, the ever heavier social pressure on current parents makes them ignore their children. They have to work hard and spend less time with their children. The second, some of the parents know little about the skills of communication, nor the necessary knowledge of education, although they are eager to talk with their children. The most important reason may be the traditional ideas of authority which most parents have when facing the children. Thus, they are not likely to communicate with each other as friends.To sum up, in order to make a better atmosphere in which the children grow up, the parents should ensure the stability of the family and act as good friends to the children. Communicate frankly, and you will find the gap between parents and children diminishing.  Understanding between Parents and ChildrenWith the rapid development of science and technology, people’s living standard is improved dramatically. At the same time, more and more pressures are imposed on people’s daily life. Then many parents can not take care of their children as well as before. It contributes to the phenomenon that there is little communication between most parents and their children.Nowadays, because of the fierce competition, people must devote themselves to their work in order to keep their status or satisfying job. But it is at the cost of ignoring their children. Moreover, along with more and more entertainment devices — electronic game machine, television, computer — and so on, penetrating our life, the children’ s attention is attracted by them.But how to change the unfavorable situation between parents and children? As far as I am concerned, parents should spend more time playing with children in any forms and children should get more advice from their parents when they are in trouble. In a word, parents and children should take their efforts together to narrow the gap.